BUG-A-BOO

STOP IT ...... JUST STOP IT!!!  If someone does NOT show you genuine interest, let them go chile and move on.  Stop, I repeat, STOP being a bug-a-boo in some one's life.  I remember the Destiny's Child song with this same title and they hit it on the nail people blowing up your phone (we had pagers back then LOL), calling your friends and families houses whenever you don't answer their calls, calling your job or currently, the absolute NO NO, sending you a trillion pokes and inbox messages on your Facebook page.  If you or anyone you know is guilty of the above examples, you or them are a bug-a-boo.


How does one get to this point of being a bug-a-boo?....I think it happens gradually and in modern terms today it's called S-T-A-L-K-I-N-G.  If you think a person is gonna seriously be interested in you, due to you calling them 99 times a day, sadly you are on the wrong track in the dating world.  I don't know how many times I see this play out in men and women.  Remember, I live in a pink world so all sides are created equal until proven guilty...LOL but seriously, the guy complains about the chic blowing up his cell and vice verse.  People, please also know your roles from being the main piece, dip, boo, wifey, mistress, baby momma/daddy, etc and stop trying to be more than what's being offered on the table.  I recognize men and women are from Mars and Venus (not my words but y'all know the author of that book) so we think and act differently, sometimes!!!!  If a person doesn't answer your call, text, Tweet or Facebook chat by your third attempt, hang it up and move on.


Oh and my favorite, NEWS FLASH: Unless it's business related, NO ONE LISTENS TO THEIR VOICEMAILS ANYMORE!! So filling up a person's voicemail system is NOT gonna get you far either and this again labels you a bug-a-boo.  Someone please call an ex of mine and tell him this information ASAP.


I'm gonna leave you with the Destiny's Child video so you can jam to it the next time your bug-a-boo calls you...enjoy :-)